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Published on January 23, 2026
You know that feeling when exams are getting closer, and you start feeling knots in your stomach? Perhaps you have been lying in bed, worried that you haven’t started revising yet? You might even be on your way to school, and you start forgetting everything you have been studying the night before?
If any of this sounds or feels familiar, you are not alone.
Exam stress affects most young people. In fact, recent research shows that 85% of students experience exam anxiety in the 12 months leading up to their exams. And the thing is, a bit of stress before exams is completely normal. It shows you care about doing well. But when the stress and anxiety from exams start to impact your sleep, your concentration, or how you feel day-to-day, it’s important to understand why you are feeling that way, and what you can do to help manage it.
Whether you've only just started revising, you're preparing for your mocks in a couple of weeks, or you've got an exam first thing tomorrow, we’re here to help. In this guide:
If you're reading this feeling stressed and need something that helps quickly, here are four things you can try straight away:
These are quick strategies you can try straight away. For more detailed advice, explore:
Exam stress feels different for everyone. For some people, it's that sick feeling in your stomach or lying awake at night. For others, it's struggling to concentrate or feeling constantly on edge. There's no single way to experience it, and however it shows up for you is valid.
In short, it is basically how your mind and body react when you're feeling under pressure about exams. It's not just nerves on the actual exam day. It can start months in advance, during your revision period, and even carry on whilst you're waiting for results. All of these feelings are totally normal. It’s important to understand why you might feel this way.

People experience stress for different reasons when it comes to exams. There is no right or wrong answer, but some common reasons include:
There is no correct way to feel stress. Everybody reacts differently when under pressure. Although it is important to notice some of the common signs of exam stress, so you can take steps to manage them before they become overwhelming.
How your body feels:
How you feel emotionally:
Recognising these signs early means you can do something about them before stress becomes overwhelming.
It doesn’t matter if you haven’t started your revision yet or if you are months into your studying; these strategies can help reduce exam stress and improve how you feel moving forward.
Chances are, if you're feeling stressed about exams, your friends are too. Talking to them about how you're feeling can help you realise you're not alone in this. You might find they're worried about the same topics, or they might have revision tips that work for them. Even just venting about exam pressure together can take the weight off. If you're up for it, you could study together - quiz each other, talk through tricky concepts, or just keep each other company whilst you work.
It isn’t good for your mental health to focus intensely for hours. Try studying in bursts, by adapting the popular Pomodoro Technique:
Take at least one day for yourself each week. You don’t have to study every single day, and having some downtime will help you to feel more focused and energised when you do come back to your studies.
And when you do take some time for yourself, make sure you do something you enjoy. It doesn't have to be much, but playing your favourite video game, watching a film, meeting up with mates, or doing a hobby you love can help you reset and remind you there's more to life than exams.
Revision plans can be a great way to give your studying some structure. They don't need to be complicated if that is not your style - just having a rough idea of what you're covering and when can help you feel more in control.
The key is making a plan that works for you, not stressing about making it perfect. And if you are starting late, that is okay as well. Just make sure you hone in on the topics that are most likely to come up, the areas you're weakest in or the content worth the most marks. Do what you can with the time you've got.
Not everybody learns in the same way. Try different methods to see what works for you:

Where you study, and the environment, can have a big impact on how you feel whilst revising:
Some people work better with a bit of background noise. If that's you, try instrumental music or ambient sounds rather than anything with lyrics that can be distracting.
If you can, consider doing some past papers in exam-like conditions. Set a timer, sit at a desk, and work without your notes or phone. This helps you get used to the pressure and makes the actual exam feel less intimidating on the day.
Exercise is one of the best stress-relievers. It helps take your mind off exams and clears your head. It doesn't just mean joining a gym:


Exam day can start to feel quite intense, and that is completely normal. But there are things you can do to make sure you are best prepared on the day, starting from the night before:
Rather than rushing around in the morning trying to find your stationery and clothes, make sure you get everything sorted the night before. That way, when you wake up, you will know everything is ready to go, reducing stress in the morning:
Rather than staying up late and tiring yourself out, try to get to bed at a reasonable time. Even if you don't feel like you can sleep, just lying down with your eyes closed and letting your body rest will help more than cramming until the early hours.
Exam morning is when you may feel your stress start to peak. And that is completely natural. Try to stay calm and stick to your routine. You've done the work. Focus on getting there on time and staying as relaxed as possible.
Remember, thousands of students are feeling exactly the same way you are right now.
Get there about 10-15 minutes before so you can settle in, but not so early that you're waiting around for a long time. Avoid students who are frantically quizzing each other or panicking. Find a quiet spot, and keep yourself relaxed. You’ve got this.
If you're running late or something goes wrong, try not to panic. These things happen. Just get there as soon as you can. The exam will still go ahead, and you can still do well.
If you feel overwhelmed before or during the exam, remember you can take a moment for yourself. Here are some techniques that help:
When you're anxious, your breathing becomes quick and shallow. Slowing it down tells your nervous system to calm down. Try the 4-7-8 technique:
Box breathing, or the 4-4-4-4 technique, is another great way to help you relax in high-stress moments:
You can do these anywhere. At your desk before the exam starts, or even during the exam itself. Taking 30 seconds to calm yourself means the rest of your time will be more productive.
Remember, feeling nervous is completely normal. Taking a moment to breathe and reset can make a massive difference to how the rest of your exam goes.
Doing your best is enough. Even if you don't remember everything or make some mistakes, that's normal.
Once an exam is finished, there's often a mix of relief and worry about how you did.
It's tempting to compare answers with friends, but this usually just makes everyone more stressed. You might have answered differently, but still got it right. Or got something wrong, but done brilliantly on other questions. It’s impossible to know for sure.
You can't change your answers now. If you want to chat with friends, talk about anything except the exam you've just done. It is hard to resist, but if you are feeling particularly stressed after your exams, take yourself out of these conversations as they do tend to happen.
If you've got more exams coming up, try to shift your focus forward rather than thinking too much about what's already done. You can't change it now, so put that energy into preparing for your next exam. Give yourself a short break, then get back to your revision with a clear head.
You've worked hard and dealt with weeks of stress. That's worth a break. Plan something nice for yourself:
These don't have to be big things. Even an afternoon doing nothing can be nice after long periods of studying.


The wait for results can feel long. Whilst you're waiting:
When results day comes, remember that grades are important, but they're not the only thing that matters. They're a snapshot of how you performed on specific days, not a measurement of your worth or future potential. Many of the world’s most successful people didn't get the grades they hoped for but went on to accomplish amazing things. One exam result doesn't define the rest of your life.
Sometimes, despite trying different strategies, exam stress still feels too much to handle alone. That's okay, and it's sensible to ask for help.
Your teachers want you to succeed. Talk to them about:
Parents often want to help but aren't always sure how. You could:
Exam stress can be temporary and manageable. But sometimes stress becomes more serious. It’s okay if you feel like you might need extra support, particularly if:
If any of this sounds familiar, please talk to an adult you trust - a parent, teacher, school nurse, GP, or counsellor. If you need help now, please visit our urgent help page to access services that provide 24/7 support to keep you safe and help you through difficult moments.
If you're a young person in Swindon aged 5-18 (or up to 25 with SEND) and exam stress is affecting your mental health, BeU Swindon offers free support.
You don't need a diagnosis to seek support. If you're feeling unlike your usual self, worrying more than normal, struggling with daily activities, or just need someone to talk to, we're here for you. BeU Swindon provides:
You can refer yourself if you're 12 or older, or a parent or professional can make a referral for you. As part of our 'Waiting Well' initiative, if waiting times exceed 90 days, we'll contact you monthly with helpful resources and support options.
We also run exam stress workshops in schools as part of our Whole School Approach Offer. If you're a teacher or school professional interested in bringing these workshops to your school, please reach out to us to find out more.
Sometimes we need to reintroduce our minds and bodies so they can work well together again. Check out our Body Scanner video, which is a great mindfulness tool for children and young people.
Exam stress is real. If you're feeling it, you're in good company with millions of other students across the UK. But stress doesn't have to take over. The strategies in this guide can all help you feel more in control during exam season.
Remember that exams are important, but they're not everything. They're a measure of what you know on particular days, not a measure of who you are or what you're capable of in life. Whatever happens, you'll get through this.
Be kind to yourself, use the strategies that work for you, and don't be afraid to ask for help.
Good luck with your exams. You've got this.

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